Okay, I need some feedback. I get a lot of emails asking for certain things. Some people want to see new girls all the time. Others want to see the same girls over and over. At this point I think I am running out of authentic ABDL women for photoshoots and I want your opinion on the matter. Here are the options:
1. Continue with authentic ABDL women only. Even if that means shooting the same girls over and over. Of course I will continue to search for new ABDL girls, but currently the tank has run a bit dry.
2. Hire professional models that have no interest in the ABDL lifestyle. Of course the content would be as authentic as possible, but in the end they are just models. The benefit would be very attractive women.
3. Hire the ABDL women I have turned away in the past for multiple reasons. Not to sound harsh, but these reasons usually included being overweight, older than average or just not very attractive. My apologies if that offends anyone I have turned away in the past.
I have included a poll to the right side of this page where you can choose the option you would like best. Personally I enjoy working with real ABDL women. It makes everything much more fun, however, I will do whatever it takes to make DiaperedOnline the best it can be.
Thank you for your assistance.
I was just going through my end of the year paperwork, making sure Uncle Sam gets his share of my life, when I noticed something about the members of Diapered Online. There is a lot more female members than even I would have expected. From what I can tell, approximately one third of all the people that signed up during the 2009 calendar year had female names. That doesn’t include the five or so percent that had names that could be either male or female. Assuming some of those might be men signing up with credit cards in their wive’s names or some such, I would also have to assume an equal number of the men’s names could be women using their husband’s credit cards.
To me, this is just more proof that there are a lot more ABDL women out there than most people think. Luckily I am in a position to meet and interact with a good many of them, as you can see on Diapered Online. And the women you see on Diapered Online are just the women that are local enough or willing to travel and have their material posted online. I have diaper punished even more women than what you see on the site, but they are unwilling to have their material posted. I really do have the best job in the world.
I get a lot of emails from members that want to tell me about events that have happened in their lives. With permission, I am going to be adding these letters to the new letters category here on the blog. If you would like your letter posted here, please email it to email@example.com and be sure to mention that you give permission for it to be posted on the site.
Look forward to reading your great letters. =)
I’m running out of ideas and I need your help. Up to this point I have mostly shot what appealed to me. That being diaper punishment and humiliation type scenes. I know not everyone shares my particular interests, so would like to hear from anyone with an idea for a scene they would like to see featured on Diapered Online.
Whether it be a simple suggestion or a long scripted scene, I would love to hear from you. Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
I went to a local fetish party last night, as I do on occasion, and was lucky enough to sit in on a conversation that turned to diapering. It started when one dominant woman related a story about when she got pregnant and decided that until the child was potty trained, her submissive husband would have to wear diapers as well. Her reasoning being that he would work harder to help their child with potty training if he had an actual stake in it. She talked about how she would not change his diapers for him, but he had to ask her permission to change them himself. A few examples of how he would spend hours in a messy diaper, because he was too embarassed to call her while in a public place and ask if he could change his messy diaper. Turns out, she insisted that he use the words “Can I please change my messy diaper?” in order to be granted permission. Needless to say, he was quite embarassed about this story.
That story led to a dominant man talking about how his female submissive loves figging(inserting ginger into the ass), but that she would always become partially incontinent for a day or two afterwards. Rather than give up figging, he just puts her into diapers for a couple days afterwards. He also talked about using diapers when he had extended bondage sessions planned, which others agreed with.
After that, one of the professional dommes(that most don’t like) related a more negative story about a submissive client she has with a diaper fetish and all the horrible things she does to him. Of course that ruined the conversation and the topic moved on. Either way, it was very interesting to see just how common diapering can be in the fetish community.
The small update this week on http://www.diaperedonline.com is due to a major hard drive failure. Of course, I didn’t have anything backed up. That would be too smart. lol. Anyway, I’m working on recovering everything off the hard drive and will make up for the small update this week with a big update next week(or sooner if all goes well with the drive).
Even though it’s small, this week’s update is bound to please at least a few of you. Diaper Girl Carmen gets her first diaper punishment… She is locked into the pillory, where I give her a full two quart enema. After the enema, she is led to the bedroom for four thick diapers. Of course slits were cut into the first three to allow all four of them to soak up the expelled enema. After being very thickly diapered, a straitjacket is added to prevent her from messing with her diapers. She tried to resisting expelling the enema into the diaper, but when I checked on her eight hours later she was completely soaked and very messy. Very hot!
I’ve been wanting to build more bondage and adult baby furniture for a long time and I finally finished the first of many projects. It’s not exactly perfect, but it was a learning experience. You will be able to see it in many future photoshoots, but I plan on taking what I learned from building this one to make a much better version. Something a bit more refined, with maybe a few more bells and whistles.
The neck hole is perfect, but I fear the wrist holes may be too large for most of the diaper girls I intend to punish in this thing. The next version will have adjustable wrist holes, but for now I will just live with adding wrist cuffs on the other side to keep them immobile.
My next project is going to be an adult sized high chair. Rather than building it from scratch, I was thinkin I could use an existing counter-height chair and just add a matching tray and perhaps some restraints. After that, a crib and who knows what else…
It’s been two years in the making, but I am finally moving into my brand new house. After dealing with contractors and banks and government officials, the house is finally built and ready to be lived in!
I’ve spent way too much time in this cramped little mobile home. It’s time to stretch my legs in a more spacious home. Another added benefit will be much more room for photoshoots and room to store larger furniture. Hell, I’ll even have a shop/garage to design and build some great diaper punishment furniture and tools.
There seems to be a consensus in the AB/DL community that AB/DL women are very rare and severely outnumbered by AB/DL men. After 15+ active years in this community, I have to disagree.
In my opinion, the major difference between men and women, when it comes to fetishes, is that men tend to be more focused on one fetish and throw themselves wholeheartedly into that fetish. For men it’s more natural to take things to the extreme. They want to live their fetish as a lifestyle and go out of their way to make that dream come true.
Women, on the other hand, tend to be roleplayers. Most are not interested in living their fetish as a lifestyle. They prefer to dabble during roleplay scenes. In general, they don’t really feel the need to participate in online fetish cultures. Obviously there are exceptions and many women are very active in the AB/DL community, but not even close to the degree of men.
Running an AB/DL web site has afforded me the honor of meeting a great many diaper loving women, which has helped me gain this insight about the apparent lack of women in the community. In fact, nearly all of the women I’ve spoken with have told me they are members of the various lists and bulletin boards, but rarely participate. I would ask the owners of those boards to share the actual number of females registered, but don’t want to violate anyone’s privacy.
By the way, I’ve photographed 50+ diapered women over the years and that is just a handful of the women I’ve communicated with. There have been hundreds more that were unwilling to be photographed. For those of you searching for the perfect someone… Keep looking. They’re out there, but just like everywhere else you need to impress them.
Hey all. My name is DprdJ(Not my real name of course – LOL) - webmaster of DiaperedOnline.com. I started this blog primarily to share behind the scenes information about my work at Diapered Online. Over the last few years I have gotten tons of emails from the AB/DL community asking me about all aspects of running an AB/DL content site. Hopefully I can answer some of those questions and any new questions that might come my way.